Why Did Nian Split? Or Did They?

[Doppelgänger]

Yeah but we don't really even know if that's true. Previously they've both said they aren't ready for that so who knows, but every few months this rumor starts up again. I think they're just tired of answering the same questions over and over and may just let it go this time. We'll know in time if they are still together.

[sandz2710]

Of course we will. I think they just want to be left to themselves ~ any relationships hard enough without the added pressure of being a celebrity & having your every move scrutinised! There will always be people who want you to fail no matter who you are I guess...
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[beangelic1000]

Jun 1, 2013 15:29:09 GMT -5 sandz2710 said:

We can! :0) although I can't help thinking maybe the age gap is too much...if Ian's in a place where marriage is on the cards & Nina's just getting going with her career then I can see why the rumours are making the rounds...
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Ten years isn't that big of an age gap and Ian doesn't really look the age he is supposed to be....he never did.   Kat and Candice's careers are going well also and both have recently become engaged and they are around the same age as Nina, therefore, they appear to be taking the gamble of both career and marriage.

[sandz2710]

Jun 1, 2013 19:00:53 GMT -5 beangelic1000 said:

Jun 1, 2013 15:29:09 GMT -5 sandz2710 said:

We can! :0) although I can't help thinking maybe the age gap is too much...if Ian's in a place where marriage is on the cards & Nina's just getting going with her career then I can see why the rumours are making the rounds...
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Ten years isn't that big of an age gap and Ian doesn't really look the age he is supposed to be....he never did.   Kat and Candice's careers are going well also and both have recently become engaged and they are around the same age as Nina, therefore, they appear to be taking the gamble of both career and marriage.

It can be a big age gap for some! I suppose we shall see, the truth will come out eventually! Either way I think they make an awesome couple & wish them all the best in whatever future plans they have! :0)...I'm not one of those people that wishes failure upon people...nor am I one of those who believes rumour! I was just pointing out that I can see why a rumour would be sparked that's all :0)...x

[iansfan]

My hubs and I are 10 years apart, but when we met I was in my late 20's and he was in his late 30's. We were both ready to settle down. Had we met early that might not have been the case. Timing is everything. We shall see, I guess.

SANDZ love the sig...

[sandz2710]

Jun 2, 2013 9:09:59 GMT -5 iansfan said:

My hubs and I are 10 years apart, but when we met I was in my late 20's and he was in his late 30's. We were both ready to settle down. Had we met early that might not have been the case. Timing is everything. We shall see, I guess.

SANDZ love the sig...

:0) haha thank you!

10 years might not be a lot for some but I was just saying I can see why the rumours are fuelled :0) some people just don't want to see anyone happy & will create rumours out of thin air! "Oh he didn't hold her hand/cuddle/touch her" they must be splitting up...:0/...I hope they are okay & shoving their middle fingers up at all the haters cos they're perfectly happy!
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[kate]

Last week the split was Nina's fault and this week it is Ian's fault... Next week it will be because they couldn't agree on wallpaper for the bedroom and when filming returns media will say they are trying to rekindle their love for the cats. When nobody confirms or denies the rumours they think up new ones based on a millisecond snapshot.

We only get this much talk about their personal lives in the summer when they are apart because paps aren't really in Atlanta so they are pretty much left alone until they jet off somewhere.

[Doppelgänger]

Jun 2, 2013 17:10:57 GMT -5 kate said:

Last week the split was Nina's fault and this week it is Ian's fault... Next week it will be because they couldn't agree on wallpaper for the bedroom and when filming returns media will say they are trying to rekindle their love for the cats. When nobody confirms or denies the rumours they think up new ones based on a millisecond snapshot.

We only get this much talk about their personal lives in the summer when they are apart because paps aren't really in Atlanta so they are pretty much left alone until they jet off somewhere.

You know that is very true.  So they get to live in their bubble a bit anyway.  Maybe they play possum when they have to go places the paps are sure to be.

[sandz2710]

Jun 2, 2013 17:19:44 GMT -5 Doppelgänger said:

Jun 2, 2013 17:10:57 GMT -5 kate said:

Last week the split was Nina's fault and this week it is Ian's fault... Next week it will be because they couldn't agree on wallpaper for the bedroom and when filming returns media will say they are trying to rekindle their love for the cats. When nobody confirms or denies the rumours they think up new ones based on a millisecond snapshot.

We only get this much talk about their personal lives in the summer when they are apart because paps aren't really in Atlanta so they are pretty much left alone until they jet off somewhere.

You know that is very true.  So they get to live in their bubble a bit anyway.  Maybe they play possum when they have to go places the paps are sure to be.

They probably do play possum a bit! They're probably sat together right now laughing at the world thinking that they've split up! I hope they haven't, but if they have then I'm sure the reasons behind it were good...

[beangelic1000]

If you actually follow Ian and Nina's activities you will find there was simply no time for them to argue and come to such a final spilt as suggested by the online tabloids.

The last time Nian was together was at Penshoppe and the interview and reports of them behind the scenes show they were very much together as a couple and Ian left for Barcelona after that...which was when they started their time apart.



Now this is interesting it's Nina tweet
Nina Dobrev‏@ninadobrev14h
Don't do it. say.ly/urB5Xb7


When you click on the link it has a line from a song this is the song and video. Words are below the video



I don't tell anyone about the way you hold my hand
I don't tell anyone about the things that we have planned
I won't tell anybody
Won't tell anybody
They wanna push me down, they wanna see you fall down

Won't tell anybody that you turn the world around
I won't tell anyone that your voice is my favorite sound
I won't tell anybody
Won't tell anybody
The wanna see us fall, they wanna see us fall down

I don't need a parachute, baby if I've got you
Baby if I've got you, I don't need a parachute
You're gonna catch me, you're gonna catch if I fall
Down down down

Don't believe the things you tell yourself so late at night
You are your own worst enemy, you'll never with the fight
Just hold on to me, I'll hold on to you
It's you and me up against the world, it's you and me

I don't believe anything, don't trust anyone anymore
But I believe you when you say we're never gonna fall
Hand behind my neck, arm around my waist
Never let me hit the ground, you'll never let me crash down

I don't need a parachute, baby if I've got you
Baby if I've got you, I don't need a parachute
You're gonna catch me, you're gonna catch me if I fall
Down down down

I don't need a parachute, baby if I've got you
Baby if I've got you, I don't need a parachute
You're gonna catch me, you're gonna catch me if I fall
Down down down

I won't fall out of love, I won't fall out of love, I won't fall out of love, I won't fall out of love, I won't fall out of love, I won't fall out of love, I won't fall out of love, I fall into you

I won't fall out of love, I won't fall out of love, I won't fall out of love, I won't fall out of love, I won't fall out of love, I won't fall out of love, I won't fall out of love, I fall into you

I don't need a parachute, baby if I've got you
Baby if I've got you, I don't need a parachute
You're gonna catch me, you're gonna catch me if I fall
Down down down

I don't need a parachute, baby if I've got you
Baby if I've got you, I don't need a parachute
You're gonna catch me, you're gonna catch me if I fall
Down down down

I don't need a parachute, baby if I've got you
Baby if I've got you, I don't need a parachute
You're gonna catch me, you're gonna catch me if I fall
Down

[Doppelgänger]

Very interesting indeed.

[Sweetluv4DE]

hmmmmmmmmmmmmm??

Nian you guys are like a crime on Unsolved mysteries.

[Doppelgänger]

Jun 2, 2013 21:35:51 GMT -5 Sweetluv4DE said:

hmmmmmmmmmmmmm??

Nian you guys are like a crime on Unsolved mysteries.

They're keeping us busy wondering during the hiatus anyway.

[beangelic1000]

If you're interested in a little NIAN fun....

We always find parallels or forshadowings when it come to Damon and Elena, well how about for Ian and Nina

For one thing Ian's first name has all the letters required to COMPLETE Nina


The Number they were born on is the last number of the year they were born in, and exactly follows the number before it in that year (in number order.)

Ian: Dec 8th, 78.
Nina Jan 9th, 89.

[Doppelgänger]

Jun 2, 2013 23:11:17 GMT -5 beangelic1000 said:

If you're interested in a little NIAN fun....

We always find parallels or forshadowings when it come to Damon and Elena, well how about for Ian and Nina

For one thing Ian's first name has all the letters required to COMPLETE Nina


The Number they were born on is the last number of the year they were born in, and exactly follows the number before it in that year (in number order.)

Ian: Dec 8th, 78.
Nina Jan 9th, 89.

Alright that's just freaky right there....