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Post by Doppelgänger on Jun 28, 2013 13:23:18 GMT -5
Oh my goodness. There's girls on mine literally in floods of tears... That's not healthy surely?! What kind of frame of mind are you in if you dissolve into floods of tears when a couple (that you don't personally know, like you're not best mates!) splits up?! *allegedly* splits up even... Yes, same here, last night I nearly unfollowed one in particular who would not stop wailing like a baby as if her life depended on Nian being together and I still can't figure out why THIS is any more evidence than any of the rest. It's all just an accumulation of information to me, some of it good, some of it bad, none of it evidence of ANYTHING certain. Considering how horrible these so called 'fans' are to anyone who observes or is involved with anything to do with Nian these days I don't think I'd be telling anyone what I saw if I saw anything. It's really horrific some of the nastiness I've seen out of people calling people they don't know liars, whores and other various awful things. So much so that for the most part the people who have said something now wish they didn't. This is part of why I don't think they necessarily were doing it just for attention's sake. The plane girl got her Twitter account suspended due to fan complaints. She got it back because of course she was not doing anything wrong just saying what she thought she saw. She's now sorry she said anything at all and deleted the 'whispering' picture off her twitter. The guy with Nina, as Beangelic said, made his account private and later deleted his 'piggyback' picture. There's some very scary 'fans' out there. |
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Post by sandz2710 on Jun 28, 2013 13:33:56 GMT -5
Some people have very scary lives. I'm pretty sure they live out their lives (& the things that they maybe don't have) through others & that is weird & very very scary!
Some people are "fans" to a scarily obsessive stalkerish level...their actual state of mind terrifies me!
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Post by Doppelgänger on Jun 28, 2013 13:54:53 GMT -5
Alot of it has to be that they are young and all of this blends into their imaginations in an odd sort of way but I have seen some grown women acting the same so I dunno. Considering we don't really see the bad stuff from our end it has to be pretty weird from their's sometimes. There were some calling Ian a whore about this Alexis stuff yesterday. If it is true, given the timeline we've had in front of us, what is so shocking about that? It isn't to me. Some are sending relationship advice to the two of them about not giving up and stuff. Really? Do you KNOW anything about their relationship and what could be the issue here if any? How presumptious! I saw one calling out Alexis on her twitter about ruining a three year relationship. I mean c'mon! It's just weirdo world right now with Nian. It makes me embarrassed to be a fan like them when people act so oddly about them.
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Post by sandz2710 on Jun 28, 2013 13:59:09 GMT -5
It creeps me out...honestly it does...there's young girls giving out "relationship" advice when they've probably never had a relationship themselves! There's always tweets on my feed that make me roll my eyes! Lol...
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Post by Doppelgänger on Jun 28, 2013 14:08:45 GMT -5
I guess you gotta laugh and hope Nian can get a laugh out of it as well, cause otherwise...some of these people need serious psychological help.
In my opinion, I don't think they are still together since they haven't been together in two months now and there seems to me to be a disconnect between them that wasn't there before. I think that speaks for itself, but there's still a part of me that hopes I'm wrong. I'm not losing any sleep over it though. I still haven't found my perfect man and I've been through a few so I am realistic in that department that people can change/drift apart/want other things out of their life and that can make you move on. I'm hoping if that's what happened with Nian that they still can work together and are not holding any anger or animosity toward each other. Considering the kind of people that they are I don't think they will have a problem. Ian is always a positive person and Nina seems to be as well so they'll be just fine regardless. It's the rest of us that are making too much out of it all.
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Post by Doppelgänger on Jun 28, 2013 14:16:37 GMT -5
I do wonder how long this will go on though with us all wondering and guessing even after they are back into production. There's no guarantee we will know any more then, than we know now. If I were them I would keep everything to myself regardless of their status as a couple. For all we know that could very well be what they decided in all of this mess.
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Post by Charlotte on Jun 28, 2013 18:36:12 GMT -5
Dopple, I think you are right that evidence is not great right now but you never know. Nina has been on 3 continents in two weeks but skipping Europe. I think they'll figure out relationship stance once they are back in GA. They start filming in less than 2 weeks. I am hopeful we will get to see how they missed each other translated to screen.
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Post by Doppelgänger on Jun 28, 2013 19:55:32 GMT -5
It should be interesting that's for sure, or we'll be waiting for something and get nothing and still not have a clue. Oh well!  |
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Post by Doppelgänger on Jun 28, 2013 19:59:42 GMT -5
This is interesting. She mentions Ian's cat Moke again just before she left for vacation. I would like to see the rest of this article but the person who posted it on twitter didn't post it. She's talking about taking vacation and I'd like to see what she says so if anyone sees it anywhere, please post!  |
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Post by LindaBrownEyes on Jun 29, 2013 1:37:37 GMT -5
So why do people on twitter jump to conclusions about this new chick Ian did a movie with? I mean, I doubt it's serious. He was in love with Nina and it's only been a couple of months. Maybe he's having fun like she is. Twitter people talk like they can't believe he's moved on so soon. I sure am seeing her in pics with a bunch of guys and I'm not jumping to conclusions.
I do feel they are broke up or on "a break." Do I feel that when they see each other things could totally change? HEll yeah. I was young once and in love and when we broke up and I partied with my friends and had lots of fun, most of the time I was dying inside because I was still in love. So here's how I see. If one or both of them are still in love, they are secretly hiding that pain by doing their own thing for now. If they are over each other and don't get back together, then there's nothing that can be done and I hope they can be friends. But let's face it, I have unsuccessfully tried and failed, miserably, I might add, to be friends with an ex. Why? Because he was over me and I wasn't over him. I just don't see both of them being over each other or it couldn't have been that strong to begin with. I've held onto love for years in my past. So it will be interesting to see how this all works out. I just want Damon and Elena, period. And if I get that, then Nian's love lives are just that, theirs. I love both of them.
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Post by Doppelgänger on Jun 29, 2013 8:33:52 GMT -5
So why do people on twitter jump to conclusions about this new chick Ian did a movie with? I mean, I doubt it's serious. He was in love with Nina and it's only been a couple of months. Maybe he's having fun like she is. Twitter people talk like they can't believe he's moved on so soon. I sure am seeing her in pics with a bunch of guys and I'm not jumping to conclusions. I do feel they are broke up or on "a break." Do I feel that when they see each other things could totally change? HEll yeah. I was young once and in love and when we broke up and I partied with my friends and had lots of fun, most of the time I was dying inside because I was still in love. So here's how I see. If one or both of them are still in love, they are secretly hiding that pain by doing their own thing for now. If they are over each other and don't get back together, then there's nothing that can be done and I hope they can be friends. But let's face it, I have unsuccessfully tried and failed, miserably, I might add, to be friends with an ex. Why? Because he was over me and I wasn't over him. I just don't see both of them being over each other or it couldn't have been that strong to begin with. I've held onto love for years in my past. So it will be interesting to see how this all works out. I just want Damon and Elena, period. And if I get that, then Nian's love lives are just that, theirs. I love both of them. Totally agree with all of this. Several people have seen them together according to twitter (which is not a guarantee to be true!) and that he is vacationing with her in Italy. The girl has a daughter who is turning 2 and she's 23. But I will say from my own experience, it is easy to go for a rebound to ease the pain, take your mind off someone you love when it ends. I did it. I met my rebound one week after leaving an ex. It didn't work out well.  |
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Post by Doppelgänger on Jun 29, 2013 8:57:50 GMT -5
My twitter TL is pissing me off now...calling Ian a cheater...grrrrrr I decided to vent here, unfollows will follow. Aholes! What do people want? They ask for proof that Nian is not together. We still don't have said proof, just rumors and speculations and then they call him a cheater based upon something we aren't even positive is true. PEOPLE! What is wrong with all of you? Either you believe they split up and so it's fine for him to be with someone else or you don't and you act like he's cheating? Get real! And we don't even know if any of it is true, neither the break up or the vacation in Italy with Alexis. You'd think I followed Stelenas or something, but I don't! These are Ian's so-called fans!
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Post by sandz2710 on Jun 29, 2013 9:02:05 GMT -5
People are so annoying. They'll jump ship & follow others like sheep! They'll suddenly decide they're Nina's fans & clearly Ian's actions are something they don't agree with. People are so fickle!
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Post by Doppelgänger on Jun 29, 2013 10:06:02 GMT -5
They're idiots! They believe this with no real proof and since they didn't believe the break up rumors that makes him a cheater now. Yeah...ok.
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Post by sandz2710 on Jun 29, 2013 10:07:01 GMT -5
They're idiots! They believe this with no real proof and since they didn't believe the break up rumors that makes him a cheater now. Yeah...ok. *rolls eyes* some people need a reality check huh? |
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