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Post by Sweetluv4DE on May 6, 2013 21:12:49 GMT -5
Boy I am hoping that Stefan standing in the water beneath DE in that poster indicates trouble ahead for Stefan. I hope it gives him an interesting story line and keeps SE apart! I want Steroline so bad I can taste it! SE just need to not be together for awhile. DE needs their time. Well they need their time cause I don't wanna quit TVD yet! LOL But I will!
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Post by Doppelgänger on May 9, 2013 23:22:00 GMT -5
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Post by Sweetluv4DE on May 13, 2013 11:48:59 GMT -5
Ya I did notice that Elena stabbed Damon because he was in her way but Elena punched Stefan for personal reasons. LOL
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Post by Doppelgänger on May 13, 2013 14:00:57 GMT -5
Too bad we didn't get to hear her personal reasons. Maybe this week...
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Post by Sweetluv4DE on May 13, 2013 23:09:14 GMT -5
When 4x23 will end and Elena will choose Damon, I will go to stelena tag and laugh
Saw that ^^^^^^^^ On Tumblr and was busting up!
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Post by Sweetluv4DE on May 13, 2013 23:17:08 GMT -5
Daily reminder that Stefan is the one that is ”supposed to respect Elena’s choices”. However, when she broke up with with him and chose someone else, he was the one that made her brother start to kill vampires, so he could fix her and, then, she could choose him all over again. How romantic and selfless.  LOVE THIS ^^^^^^^^^ |
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Post by Sweetluv4DE on May 13, 2013 23:27:19 GMT -5
Ok I'm dying of laughter right now.................
LOL literally the only way the ‘declaration of love’ will be stelena is if stefan declares his love for elena and she says f*ck you and then goes off w/damon for the summer forever (:
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Post by Sweetluv4DE on May 13, 2013 23:30:50 GMT -5
 BWAHAHAHAHAHAHA |
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Post by Sweetluv4DE on May 13, 2013 23:34:14 GMT -5
I really ship Stefistena - Elena’s fist + Stefan
Tumblr is on a roll tonight!
ROFL
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Post by Sweetluv4DE on May 13, 2013 23:36:28 GMT -5
I FIND IT CREEPY THAT I'M POSTING IN HERE LEAVE THEN SEE SOMEONE IS IN HERE VIEWING YET IS NOT COMMENTING!!!! LURKERS....
"I always feel like, somebody's watching me"!!!!!
HAHAHA
And the SE bashing continues. =)
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Post by Sweetluv4DE on May 13, 2013 23:37:19 GMT -5
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Post by Doppelgänger on May 14, 2013 0:47:48 GMT -5
When 4x23 will end and Elena will choose Damon, I will go to stelena tag and laugh Saw that ^^^^^^^^ On Tumblr and was busting up! They've been laughing at us a long time so I guess it's only fair. |
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Post by Doppelgänger on May 19, 2013 21:20:36 GMT -5
This video is well put together and really shows the cracks in Stelena that we Delenas have seen but all in one neat package. This is why Elena chose Damon this time around! This is why Elena drifted away from Stefan and fell in love with Damon. Stelena has not been truly together since sometime is season two and ever since it's been a struggle to try to get it back to what they felt they had but the truth is that it was a lie and once exposed, they could never go back to what they thought they had and in truth, Elena doesn't want to and neither does Stefan. They've both moved past that and what Lexi said in 4x23 cements it. You can have more than one, 'the one,' the soulmate, the true love and you need to let go to find another.
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Post by Doppelgänger on May 19, 2013 21:37:47 GMT -5
From Tumblr: tvd-hp-disney
Seriously, guys.
I’m reading so many excuses for why Elena picked Damon and why she didn’t pick Stefan, and some of them are ridiculous. Is it really that hard to accept that she picked Damon because he’s the one she’s in love with now? At the end of the day, this is a love triangle. It’s not given that Stelena is the only real couple that can be, they were just first. Delena is not just fan-service, it excisted in the books, and they’re certainly not a thing because Nian are/were a thing. They’ve been builded up since season 1.
I have no problems accepting that Stefan was the one Elena loved the most in Season 1, Season 2 and the beginning of Season 3. She cared about Damon, and she was attracted to him, but she loved Stefan more.
In Season 3, Elena fell in love with Damon. She still loved Stefan, but she went from being attracted to Damon to falling in love with him. Katherine said in the Season 2 finale that it was ok to love them both. Seeing how much pain the phone-conversation with Damon caused her and remembering what happened between Damon and Elena on the Motel just a few episodes before she made her choice, I think it’s pretty obvious that at the end of Season 3, Elena loved both brothers. She had unfinished buisness with Stefan, they had a strong bond, and under those circumstances Stefan felt like the right choice for her. Like Elena herself said to Damon on the phone, she never unfell for Stefan.
That was, in my opinion, what happened in Season 4. Elena unfell for Stefan. She was already in love with Damon after Season 3. But when she became a vampire, Damon was the one who accepted and loved her just as much as before. Stefan tried to be there for her too, but he made her feel like a broken toy that needed to be fixed, while Damon made her feel free. And where the sire bond is concerned, I’ll just point back to the reason why the sire bond was created in the first place. It came from Elena’s human feelings for Damon, and as much as I’ve hated the sire bond and the insecurities it caused Damon, it gave her the push she needed to act on those feelings as a vampire.
Where the Salvatores are concerned, there is no such thing as “the bad brother” and “the good brother”. The Salvatores are equally good and bad. Damon is no longer an anti-hero, he’s simply one of the “good-guys” now (as good as the characters get on this show). He was the villain during the first part of Season 1, but even then he was always driven by his love for Katherine. On the outside, Stefan has seemed like the good brother. He has shown concern for not only Elena, but many of her friends. But as we all know, he has a dark side. When he is high on human blood, he turns into a much bigger monster than Damon ever was. Looking at the Salvatores both in the past and the future, I can’t see Stefan as any better than Damon. The reason Elena had such big problems acting on her feelings for Damon really just comes down to the fact that he was working to give Stefan an eternity of misery at the time when they first entered Elena’s life, thus many of the people around her where harmed. But Damon has changed. He can’t be compared to who he was in Season 1. And what people needs to understand is that Elena has changed to.
I read everywhere that Elena picking Damon means her character is ruined. Her character is not tied with Stefan. I’ve had plenty of problems with her this season, but I think she came out stronger in the season finale. I want to see more of that Elena. She’s been through hell and back this season. Her innocense in lost. Her whole life is different. She’s graduated, she’s grown up. It’s not really that strange that who she wants to be with have changed too. For the longest time we’ve all seen Elena suppress her feelings for Damon. Elena is now at a point in her life where she doesn’t want to do that anymore. She’s not pretending for the sake of what others will think. The sire bond is gone, and what Elena said was crystal clear: It’s been a struggle for her because of what Damon’s done in the past, but now she’s ready to be with him because she loves him, and she’s not sorry for that.
Those who think Elena is terrible because they feel sorry for Stefan, may I remind you that what Stefan is going through now is exactly what Damon’s been going through for 3 full seasons? I feel sorry for Stefan, but that’s because he’s stuck at the bottom of the ocean.
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Post by Doppelgänger on May 19, 2013 21:47:40 GMT -5
This is a great response to the people who would say horrid denigrating things about Elena, especially implying she is sexually dirty in some way. Have we as women not learned anything or evolved away from paternalistic thinking? Does she not have the right to choose? Some people really need to think about what they are implying if they think a woman cannot change her mind and be with another man, that she must stay with her first love even if she is not in love with him anymore or be labeled immoral. Did any Stelenas call Stefan immoral when he slept with Rebekah or are only women bound by these societal rules they imply?
For a ship that loved to talk all about 'choice' Stelenas sure changed their tune quickly:
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Apparently Elena not choosing Stefan is automatic character deconstruction. As an Elena fan from the start, I am rather offended that to some fans, Elena’s love for Stefan was all that defined her. I am even seeing people referring to Elena as a shell of her former self. How do you figure? Because she doesn’t feel the same for her ex boyfriend as she did in the past and she is done pretending she doesn’t love another?
Welcome to adulthood. s*** happens; things change. There is a reason that people rarely ever end up with their high school sweethearts. Life. Goes. On. Elena is not the same girl she was in the pilot and the hell, why would you expect her to be? Our experiences shape us and god knows Elena has had more life experience in the past two years of her life than most people will experience in a lifetime. If she remained exactly the same girl she was in the pilot after four seasons I would be concerned. I am actually surprised people are likening character development to regression; it is just the opposite. Elena is beginning to see the world with a fresher pair of eyes. She has more clarity and perspective than she did before. But more importantly, she is living HER life the way SHE wants to. I don’t see how this is a terrible thing at all. Elena went into her decision a strong, and confident woman that KNOWS what she wants. It is better to be true to yourself than to live for the expectations of the people around you. But no, instead of this being acclaimed as a pivotal milestone in Elena’s character growth, people are crying character assassination and not even bothering to try to understand where Elena is coming from.
As soon as she doesn’t want to be with Stefan anymore, she’s seen as tainted and wrong. I don’t know what’s more disturbing; the fact that people think so little of Elena if she’s not at Stefan’s beck and call or this belief that a young girl should be tied romantically to her first love for the rest of her life and if that is to change (understandably with time) she’s just some (insert derogatory female-shaming term here) Good lord, is this really what some people think of Elena? A mere auxiliary to Stefan? Elena deserves more than to be regarded as an accessory to anyone. Yes, I am Delena shipper, but I also have the utmost love and respect for Elena outside of my OTP. I love her on her own merits and I even love her for her flaws because you take the good with the bad. She’s not some pristine china doll that’s only purpose in life is to look pretty on the arm of a Salvatore brother and to make them happy. She owes it to herself to do what is right by HER for ONCE.
The one time, the ONE TIME Elena makes a decision that reflects what she actually wants for herself as opposed to what others want for her, all of the sudden her character is the spawn of Lucifer. Well that horrible spawn of Lucifer handed over to her ex-boyfriend her one and only shot of regaining her lost mortality because she wanted him to be happy. That spawn of Lucifer has spent her whole life living for the happiness of others. That spawn of Lucifer has always been concerned with pleasing everyone but herself. If you denigrate a woman for going from that life to asserting her agency in taking her life in her own damn hands and the world be damned if anyone has a problem with it, then I seriously question your convictions in life.
Yes, Stefan got hurt and that is a shame, but in a triangle situation someone is always going to get hurt. It is just inevitable. It is a s***ty situation for anyone of the three parties to be in but it can’t always be helped. Sometimes, the things people want in life change. You cannot control who you fall in or out of love with. The person that might seem like the rational choice to you because everyone else tells you they are, might not necessarily be the person who can fulfill your primary needs or you might not be able to fulfill theirs. The fact is, Elena didn’t ask to fall in love with Damon. It wasn’t a conscious decision. Would you seriously have rather she stayed in a relationship with Stefan while her heart yearned for another? HOW would that have been fair to Stefan?
If her feelings for Damon came out of nowhere to you, then I honestly question if you remember season three happened at all. Elena actually suppressed her feelings for Damon for a very long time so as to NOT hurt Stefan, so for people to just sit there and dismiss her as a selfish person is obscene.
Elena is more than just half of your ship and mine. She is a sentient being with feelings, ideals and needs. She is in love with Damon and she owes it to herself to explore that. Deal with it.
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